I sent H the email that I am super busy and don't have time to meet, but that if he has a proposal he can email it and I'll take a look.
His immediate response:
"I'm sorry. I'm not trying to be a pain in the ass, but I thought I sent you a proposal a month and a half ago."
Um. After he sent that, I got a L and filed for S. Does he really think that proposal is anything I would even consider?? Also, his proposal had a glaring omission which is the value of his partnership interest. (Which he acknowledged, after he met with a lawyer, is a marital asset.)
His proposal isn't insulting like, he thinks he will pay me $23 a month; however, it is horribly structured and shows he has no idea (or thinks I have no idea) of the amount of support he will need to provide for me and the kids. And, I don't agree to his parenting time proposal either.
He has not provided my L with any financial info, and we haven't yet even begun the process of valuing his partnership interest, so I would be a fool to accept any of it, even if I did agree with even one point, which I don't.
Any suggestions for a response?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
