No you're not piecing. Piecing is where the WAS actively and consistently does everything they can to encourage the marriage.
Right now you have WAY too much talking. How about doing something spontaneous. Don't TALK about love, passion, etc. Just do it. Act as if you were dating her for the first time. How did you spark her interest then? Do the same.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
