Won't stop affair. Wants divorce now.

[MrBond]

"I guess she sees my weakness and taking advantage of the whole situation."

Mindreading. You don't know why she's doing what she's doing and she probably doesn't either. Just continue to concentrate on yourself.

"I will made it a most to read sandi2 rule before talking to her on the phone."

Did you ever read DB/DR? Those are the DB rules. You've gotten to the place where you can actually let the DB rules apply. Keep your positive changes going.