Crimson, It's good that you're working together to make things better for your S.

About the pictures, does it matter if it was an accident? Accept things as they come, no expectation, no judgment. You answered in a very nice way.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss