Hey guys, everything had been going great until about 30mins ago. I didn't want to post because it felt like I was rubbing it in a little. Things had been great, all of our slight dissagreements had changed in the tone in which they happened and we both had been so much more understanding of each others positions. but what has changed.....money. For the past 6 months I have been supporting myself and living to a means. I accepted that the job I had may not pay as well as others in pay per hour but it was regular and it moulded around me still doing children, school hours and available working from home. I understand my H thinks I'm worth more but he gets quite forceful with his beliefs in the fact that he thinks I should request more money. He also believes I should be more proactive in getting extra work that pays higher rates. My work is by no means in the bottom of the pile and with the benefits I have I can't look at it too badly. And besides my boss has been more then understanding in the situation I have had to deal with in regards to H and his A with OW. It's like H has slipped back into his mindset pre one year ago!! I don't know how to approach it as I'm trying to explain my position and he has already got it stuck in his head how it is to play out. I just left the room crying and he has gone to sleep. This is the very first time we have kind of faught in a similar style as before and am unsure how my response needs to be, doing a 180 and all.
_____________________________________________________ Me 32 H 32 D 6 S 4 S 11mth
Never allow kindness be misinterpreted for weakness. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
