Lost!,

You are so Lost LOL.....Boundaries are for you my man. You but them and you enforce them. Right now you are not enforcing them.

You have to help yourself....right now I don't see you doing anything to help yourself.

As for taxes.....I am pretty positive right now you do need to file as married. So just do it.....accept that is the law of the IRS and move on.

Stop focusing on the dumb vehicle or the sex....The vehicle is a thing. Nothing more...a replaceable thing. So you need to drop it for yourself.

As for the sex....Did you get married as a virgin? Have you had other women? It is just sex. So once again....let it go.

I haven't seen a post in awhile in regards to you....That is a backslide in itself.

You gotta do the work Lost and stop focusing on her. Until you do that....Well you are wasting your time.


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