From what I've read, this is your wife challenging your changes. ie. she's used to the 'old' you. If there's something you want to do and you are able to do it, go ahead.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
