I realised that although I have been getting out and about I have been living for her/our R instead of GAL. This needs to change. I don't want to stop doing these things for her as this is her LL, but I need to balance it with purely GAL activities.
She does however cause a row every time I want to do something for myself. I don't deserve my own time or a life she says, or it will impact on her or the kids.
She says that today while I am at work she and the kids will be leaving me.... Really hope this is a bluff
Me 41, W 39 Married 5 years Together 10 years S4, D2
