You MUST stop snooping! Did you really read that part in the Div Busting book? Read it again.
Yeah, it's hard not to obsess and snoop. But if you already know there's an OM and it's not a mandatory deal breaker, what possible good does it do you?
It backfires! Seriously!
So go GAL and become the better choice. OM does NOT get a call of any kind from you. He's not worth you noticing. He's not your equal. Become a man only a fool would leave.
What were you like when she fell in love with you?
Go be him, and begin with GAL.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016