I'm sorry he has filed for D. My H did that too but didn't follow through. I was told then by the wonderful people on this board that it didn't matter...just a piece of paper! That is true!
I, too, have moments when I want to pick up the phone and tell my H something that happened that I know he would be interested in but know that I cannot! That too, will get easier!
I like that you are changing things up to your liking in your home! What else are you doing for GAL?
Make sure you are protected financially!
The one thing I think I might have finally grasped this second time around is that you do need to look deep within yourself and work on the things you don't like. I had thought I had done that but after H came home, I fell back into the same old comfortable patterns/habits and had not changed at all! THIS is very important to do...not for your H but for you! You will be prepared for whatever happens in the future and you will learn to love yourself and be comfortable with you!
I think you are doing well!!!
BD-Aug 2009 OW Confirmed H moves out Dec 2009 D filed by H-Mar 2010 H asks to come home April 2011 BD AGAIN 1-15-2014! H seeing FOW! H ran away again! 1-18-2014
