spending time with my thoughts, reviewing and reflecting on our convo of yesterday:
H was struggling, not sure whether to bring up what he was thinking (a well thought out thought from a previous convo) or not. He decided that he would share, but wasn't wanting for it to turn into a long convo... so I said I would listen. He wanted to make 2 points.
He was trying to find a way to say that I was not in competition with OW.
He was acting like he was unsure whether to tell me this info or not.
Looking back, I wonder if he was telling me to assure me or to try to withold to keep me jealous/on my toes.
Although however, the mere discussion of it makes me somewhat more secure.
.... just my thoughts.
The second thing he wanted to bring up was combined in above, being swept off your feet and the hotel/mediator stuff. Which I posted already.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)