Bravo, 25 and AS. Love your stuff. They give such wise counsel. I also like the quote from A Course in Miracles -- "Forgiveness paints a picture of the world where suffering is over, loss becomes impossible, and anger makes no sense. Attack is gone, and madness has end." And also this "The only meaningful prayer is for forgiveness because those who have been forgiven have everything." Really forgiving my H was the best thing I did, and I had long thought it impossible. Hang in there. . .
Great quotes. My signature block says Forgiveness is your way out of hell" which is from Marianne Williamson's book on ACM...
and her books helped me, especially with the turning over to God. Which would help here, I think
I would say to God, out loud (in the shower in case the kids were around),
"I turn this marriage/pain/anger, over to You, God..." and I suppose
the thought of it, then saying it out loud and then hearing yourself say it, helped it sink in. And it calmed and soothed me. That helped keep me from losing it on h.
See if it helps...and keep posting!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
