Bravo, 25 and AS. Love your stuff. They give such wise counsel. I also like the quote from A Course in Miracles -- "Forgiveness paints a picture of the world where suffering is over, loss becomes impossible, and anger makes no sense. Attack is gone, and madness has end." And also this "The only meaningful prayer is for forgiveness because those who have been forgiven have everything." Really forgiving my H was the best thing I did, and I had long thought it impossible. Hang in there. . .