"The good thing is that while stuff like this does bother it, it does not result in me spinning out of control. It actually just makes me wonder how long I am willing to put up with this. It is also a reminder of what I deserve and want in my life."

I share the same feelings.

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014