I'm not going to file, that just makes the process faster and easier for him. I'd like to think that he will do what is right for the kids financially.

Saw a different counselor today, I like her although her approach to fixing the M is different than DB and not quite sure H would be receptive to it at this point anyway.

As far as the kids she said there is no reason to tell them at this point unless I'm going to give up on M. I think right now I will not tell them. But I will respond to H's email and let him know that it is MY decision as well, take back some of my control!

I told C that for now I just want to work on me, she's a little different than me but I like her.

J

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since