What are you thoughts on disclosure of the affair to family, both mine and that of my WW? I haven't done this because of the obvious complications that could develop should we try to reconcile...not everyone may be as forgiving. The reason I ask is because I wonder whether they should be afforded the courtesy of operating within the facts of our current situation?
I know that this would be a bell that couldn't be unrung, but by keeping her secret am I enabling her to continue living her secret life?
