Another question I have regarding her birthday, March 5. Do I text, call or email her wishing happy birthday? I have read about going dark, but is that the stage I should be at?

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M: 32 W: 26
M 7 months, T 4 years
M: 2nd M
W: 1st M
No kids

living separately 1/26/14
W files D 2/24/14
D final 4/28/14