distraught

[KarenR]

As a couple, you two could use some therapy. First, before the two of you get 'back together' you both should be checked out by a medical doctor to check for any sexually transmitted diseases. Second, I suggest you talk to a DB coach to get guidance and clarity on why you did what you did. If saving the relationship is your goal, they will help you come up with a specific plan on how to go forward. When you start interacting and communicating with your spouse in a different way, you will then have the opportunity to actually work on your marriage. Take care.