When my W first told me she didn't want to try any more and told me if she did try she would be faking it I became emotional. Her reply, "stop, stop, get control of yourself, I cant handle you being emotional, I cant take it." What was I supposed to do, act like I won a million dollars?

"Don't make me question my feelings about us again."

"Im just going to worry about myself, my close friends, and family - no one else."

"I'm not trying to hurt you but I know I am."

Or her telling me she tried to fix things, I gave you a chance and you ruined it.

I wish I could get over all this but it just makes me more frustrated and sad.


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M: 32 W: 26
M 7 months, T 4 years
M: 2nd M
W: 1st M
No kids

living separately 1/26/14
W files D 2/24/14
D final 4/28/14