own buz 22:mediation to reconcilliation, hopefully

[makingmagic]

"Bond... you want me to listen to others POV.. what is yours?"

Are you seriously asking me this? yes, because you say I am not listening to others POV.. I wanted to hear more of yours.I spent alot of time and effort yesterday explaining "explaining" but I want to hear your suggestions what was going on and what you need to do and you ask me again? It's like you didn't read anything I wrote. believe me... I read it!

GM got it right off the bat.

I'll say this ONE LAST TIME.can't we "discuss" or do you always have to "tell" this is not "teaching"

He opened up to you which was a good sign. HOWEVER, you can't seem to stop making this all about you so you didn't want to hear it. This shows you have NO patience despite how much you say that you do.TRUE...time to dig for more You can't stop controlling. I told you not to send the message saying that you didn't want to hear anything about his issues and your relationship unless there were a third party, but you sent it anyway. You did not advise me until after the message was sent. YOU essentially told him "I don't want to hear about your issues, go f yourself and talk to someone else about it because I can't handle it." So you put him in the arms of someone else.

Like GM said, either you start learning to listen or you walk away for good.I am a student... please teach! not just give 2x4's when I screw up.

All this, AGAIN shows how you haven't changed at all. You make his journey all about you and whatever progress he shows you isn't good enough.I can see that.

You want to be his "wife" but you don't want to listen to his problems. Sorry to disappoint you, but ALL relationships are going to be like that. Either you learn to listen to your other half or you'll end up alone.I am a student... I am listening. Like a student, on the test, I have some wrong and some right!

If you don't want to listen to him, end the business, end the relationship and move on.

I'm not going to tell you EXACTLY what to do because you evidently don't listen. Why can't you explain "exactly"... maybe I would hear you betterThis train wreck is going on because of you and not him. I'm not being mean-spirited, I'm just being brutally honest. okEvery answer you could ever want or need has already been explained to you time and time and time and time again in your past posts. Look for your answers in there rather than constantly asking the same ones.k, however, I feel that as each new situation arises, it puts me in a new place for possible different answers/solutions. So, that is why I have asked.

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I spoke with him this morning. I said, "I still feel the way I do as in the text, but that I DO want to LISTEN to you".