Hi Paul9510 Thanks for letting me know. I do know one of our issues my H stated was he felt I had/am having an emotional affair with our farm and I did admit once that I loved the farm more than him. Did not mean it but was admitting at one point if I had to choose I would have chosen the farm. Ironically I am losing both now and am in the process of placing the majority of our animals/some of the horses and closing out my horse business. He actually has stepped up and is paying for all of the horse stuff I just sent him an email thanking him for being patient with me while I dismantle the business and place the horses. Sad thing is he is nicer and treating me better than he has in a long time. I know too little too late but I am seeing how I greatly disrespected him on so many issues. One of my friends recently said "but you made a difference in the lives of so many children and helped save so many animals lives" I said yes I did but at the expense of my most important relationship (outside of God) If I would have nurtured my marriage the way I nurtured the farm I probably would not be here. Ironically when we first got married I wanted that farm more than anything so we went into debt for my husband to buy it for me and now it was one of the major items that caused our marriage to collapse. I do agree that many women that get involved with horses are single or are on the brink of divorce. I wonder why that is? Thanks It is nice to hear the other perspective (from the man's point of view)
W-38 H-42 T-11 M-8 C-6,2,6 months BD-Oct 1 2013 DFiled-Jan 6 2014 Went Dark - April 4, 2014
