own buz 22:mediation to reconcilliation, hopefully

[makingmagic]

Sure..its strange. But the mediator is a professional on conflict resolution. She is a lawyer too. Her husband is a divorce lawyer. Her father is a marriage counceller. Her website is alot of keeping marriages together. So... guess that was her angle. She does see it, we displayed it. He recognizes it and says it often to me.

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I would like to expand on our conversation around the mediators suggestion of a hotel room.... He said he is not looking for me to be his f-buddy. This would stir up more.

I would like to ask him more about the mediators suggestion. I think she was suggesting that we get a room to allow passion/emotion to enter the equation. Clarity will be found. As it will help determine if the risk is worth the reward...... but I won't.

I do not want to pressure or control the situation more than it might already be for him ATM.

GM.. I feel I made that clear to him last night. That due to his confusion, we keep going in circles. So, no more R talks unless a councellor is involved. He sends me many mixed messages. I am pulled into HIS confusion.

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I sent that text around 7pm last night... he didn't reply. I am not sure why because he normally texts/calls back immediately. All I was "expecting" was acknowleging receipt. Did this message make him mad?

I am being patient.