Last night, he was telling me his feelings on two issues. He mentioned during our last 2 convo's he wanted to go to councelling.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Some of the things I recall him saying:
~ He was attempting to reiterate my comment from the other day of being 2nd choice... He stated: If his beginning with the OW was anything like ours (whirlwind), he would be long gone. (I think this means, don't worry so much M, I'm still here).
~ Our mediator suggested that we get a hotel room. He feels it would be super easy to get back to the fun stuff. He is afraid that in a short time it will relapse back to old R.
~ I asked him and he wrote it down. What would help ease his fear of the above?
~ He does have emotions and feelings for me.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
