OK then Mrbond... what do you suggest I do/say from this point on?

I do want to listen.... but all he does is confirm confusion. When I listen, its like he is "explaining" to me more "i dont know".... like I am asking/pressuring him. I don't want him to feel that pressure and I am NOT asking him during these convos. They get circular.

At this point, My suggestion was to follow through with councelling or further separation.

Where do I go from here? What do you suggest?

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)