I've resorted to emailing him now because he doesn't want to speak to me, I've listed all the money he owes me. Well not all of it but at least the money for the kids. Time to start protecting myself.
Kids are still so angry with H. I've told them it's perfectly normal to be angry but that they can't use that anger wrongly. They can't be horrible to eachother or others. They can cry, have hugs, talk etc. but shouting screaming and being mean is not acceptable behaviour. I've had to strengthen boundaries....but we're getting here.
I'm not sure what to say to H about all this.
On a better note I've got a great day ahead. I'm GAL today with friends. Just need to think about my future career.
M32 H37 DD1 6 DD2 5 M6 T10 EA 31.08.13 Separated and H moved out 19.09.13 ILYBINILWY 23.09.13 OW 11.13