Small update. I tried to contact W via phone regsrding D16 and her medical issue. She does not answer. I sent emsil instead. She does not answer since we had the last convo last friday and agreed to file paperwork. It just feels strsnge..I have to detach.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
It's hard to watch our kids' relationships with our WAS suffer. There's nothing we can do but offer an ear/shoulder/love. It's hard to watch. You seem like a very caring father. I'm glad that you are staying strong and being the rock that your kids need right now.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
It's hard to watch our kids' relationships with our WAS suffer. There's nothing we can do but offer an ear/shoulder/love. It's hard to watch. You seem like a very caring father. I'm glad that you are staying strong and being the rock that your kids need right now.
thanks for the note Blues. I am trying to just love them and let the rest go. I am feeling less and less like I care about saving anything. Looking forward to the future. W seems more like a stranger each day. For the moment that seems fine.
I told IC last night I still cry once in a while. He agreed that's ok and to let the feelings come out. W did email back several hours later to say she hoped D feels better soon. It was cold and neighborly. she did not offer help of any kind.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
