Everyone is different but I wish I KNEW I was a priority to my wife rather than have my wife assume I know it. I don't expect her to live in my pocket but I do expect (when times are good again) her to make time for me like she does for work, friends, her phone, etc.
What would she have to do or say, so you could "KNOW" you are a priority?
Have you told her ^^this?
In the past, what efforts did you make to create that time with her?
Did you plan all/most/some or any dates or vacations or nights out for her?
Or did you leave it up to her? OR??
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016