Barrybran III - New job, new life?

[Barrybran]

Grrrr, decided to pick my battles instead. I validated, apologised for not telling my wife of the change in plans and said it wouldn't happen again.

OK DBer's, advice time! My wife is NOTORIOUSLY bad for not asking me things. I'm not a mindreader, never have been, never will be. I do take things too literally in life however I know that if I have the right information I can't screw up. It's something I should be more flexible on but I also find myself in trouble when I assume things instead of just asking. My wife KNOWS this about me.

Since it's a repeat problem, do I let my wife know that it's a problem, wait until our situation improves and let her know it's a problem or just let it slide and try to anticipate my wife's wishes?