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Thanks Drew.
Does everything have to be hammered out that same day? I just can't stand the thought of losing my children even more time. I feel I am being overly generous as it is. I feel as if I have compromised all I can. He probably feels the same way. If for example there is an absolute we can't agree on. What happens then. For example I don't celebrate Christmas. I gave him Christmas and Christmas Eve every year. In exchange I asked for the the full day of Thanksgiving. He still wants 1/2 of that. This is the 1 day of the year that I see and my children see some of my family. If neither of us can agree does the mediator make the final decision.
In regards to time with the kids could one of us lose more time than the other. He wants 50/50. I feel the kids are very young they should be with their mom more. It's like 60/40 now. I know your not a mediator. Just wondered since you've been through it how it works?
Thanks