Everyone is different but I wish I KNEW I was a priority to my wife rather than have my wife assume I know it. I don't expect her to live in my pocket but I do expect (when times are good again) her to make time for me like she does for work, friends, her phone, etc.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014