last one... Thanks for your honesty today. Again you have left me with a lot to process. Due to your friendship, I really feel that it is a betrayal to our intimacy. That it is not honouring our relationship. I really hope you get the help you need to help through your confusion and/or fears. Until then, I think its fair that we proceed with separation.

...........until then I think its only fair that we stop talking about reconcilliation/relationship until you konw what you want. <<<<< if I say this, he will actuall stop talking it out with me. Inspite his new desire to "communicate" (so he says)

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)