2 if its any help...my W does the same things....not fancy vacations but horse stuff. Anything with friends. I wss never a priority but you need to just get back to you. Dont hurt youself over that if you can. Whatever you decide to do...letting go will be a big part of it for your own ss nity and health. I'm going tbru it now. I know M is too. Keep up the work on you. No matter what you do. smile


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14