I will respond. Right now I need HELP, quick!! H wanted to have R talk today... just a short one, to which I listened, then spoke. He will be calling me shortly to finish up. I think I want to respond with a text: This is what my life coach friend suggests:

Thanks for your honesty today. Again you have left me with alot to think about. When you have finished exploring your friendship and are ready to discuss strategies for a successful reconcilliation to let me know.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)