I like PM's advice to do the right thing now - the thinking or feeling what that is keeps me on track. I think the next thing is to ask them to properly latch the windows - we need to stop the drafts in this old house, and they have an annoying habit of only half latching them (and yes, I know this is a completely reasonable request that I have the right to make).
Thanks,
Luke
Good.
Don't forget the part about slaying your dragon. (To be clear, that is standing up to your W. Not standing up to her as in picking a fight for the sake of creating a conflict, just standing your ground when applicable and setting new, healthy boundaries on what is permissible treatment of you ad behavior towards you...AKA, NOT avoiding conflict .)
You can do it! And I think once you start, it will empower you and become contagious. Just get that first one out of the way!
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
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