W said its over - Said I can't change her mind

[Duds3]

Thanks for the updates. It's hard for me to fathom that our M lasted 5 months. It never had a chance to survive the good or the bad. 28 days ago my W is sitting in my lap to doin this drastic step. That doesn't even make sense. Can anyone make senses of that?

I changed as a person from the first of Jan till now. I'm not the same
Person I was in Nov and Dec. the frustrating thing to me is my W isn't giving herself a chance to see how I'm now. Why not give our R one more chance with us both being in the right mindset and fully understanding what each other needed. If it doesn't work out then at least we know we both did all we could to fix things before we walked away. I've done all I can think of to fix things or at least give our M a chance to survive. My W on the other hand is running from a problem that can be fixed and overcome. It's like they say, "if you break a light blub in your house you don't go but another house, you fix the light blub."

Is it even humanly possible to just completely rid yourself of memories or someone or something?

Thank you all for letting me vent and providing feedback