Forgot to document yesterday: had IC. I really enjoy going now, just wish it wasn't so expensive! Told him about H's behavior the last 2weeks- I'm always trying to be cautiously optimistic, and IC told me to take a step back and look at the positives. He said H has obviously shifted in to a different space- even if it's only temporary, he has been thinking and evaluating on some level, and that's a huge step in the right direction. So, I'm trying to appreciate recent happenings instead of waiting for the other shoe to drop...
He also said he wants me to have a R talk with H--- nope! Not right now! What I've been doing has been working, and I'm gonna keep with it for the moment. Now if H brings it up, then okay. But I don't see the point in doing it now.
Anyway- surgery tomorrow. H is picking me up at 10 to grab breakfast beforehand (just local anesthetic). So, I should have another update tomorrow...
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
Told him about H's behavior the last 2weeks- I'm always trying to be cautiously optimistic, and IC told me to take a step back and look at the positives. He said H has obviously shifted in to a different space- even if it's only temporary, he has been thinking and evaluating on some level, and that's a huge step in the right direction. So, I'm trying to appreciate recent happenings instead of waiting for the other shoe to drop...