BklynMom, I agree w/you...his marriage will not last for very long. If he would act like a normal person instead of acting like an @ss every time one of the photographers egg him on, they would leave him alone. They love to instigate and get him riled up and he takes the bait each and every time.
BTW, Halie Berry and Jennifer Garner are not the only ones seeking legislation. Apparently Kristen Bell and her husband, as well as others have reached out to Entertainment Tonight about the child situation and are working to fight to protect their children from being exploited by the press/photographers as well.
Yes, I can see a lot of my xh in Alec as well...he's just gotten off the rails and yet, he's a darn good actor. No excuse for bad behavior.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.