I hope that you and your daughter will enjoy your night out. As for your h and the question about babysitting...the next thing he'll ask about is what are you paying him to sitting with the kids. LOL!

They truly are in another world.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.