Also, when you make your financial comparisons and decisions - add up all the costs of carrying the house (mortgage principle and interest, property taxes and insurance) and the average annual cost of repairs, plus the additional gas and mileage from being out in the country.
The compare that to the cost of renting somewhere closer to town.
You may take into account anticipated rise in value of the home, but also consider major repairs (like a new roof) that may be anticipated in the future. For instance, if you think you'll need a new roof in ten years, and a new roof would cost $10,000, add $1,000 a year to the cost of carrying your house.
Only consider keeping the house if 1) it's someplace you really love living 2) it's the same or cheaper than renting when ALL costs are figured 3) you are positive you can keep it without going into foreclosure 4)you anticipate a significant rise in value in the future.
Do the math. Don't get caught up in the emotional issues. Everybody wants to save the home for their kids but it may be a bad financial choice for you. You need financial security more than you need this house.
