I need to get the monthly support thing nailed down before we go into the retirement. I'm chunking this.

I may just approach the $800 child support for 10 years first. He gets overwhelmed so easily. I need to take this one step atta time.

Let's get him to agree to child support. I pointed out that I want 10 years because of D11's disability. I will hammer that one out first. Get this agreed.

In the meantime, I will do some retirement research. No, the house equity will be ridiculous. We just modified the loan a few months ago.

He's not thinking equity or anything. I will gather my information before I hit him with that. This guy is hanging onto life by a thread right now. I think the mere mention of equity will cause his brain to explode.

I shouldn't have given him so much today.

You live, you learn. I will slow down. At least I know he isn't filing for divorce. I don't hear him wanting to pay. I think he is afraid I will get money from my parents and file against HIM.

I need to step back, relax and handle him like a wee lil kitten.

I can do this!

Thanks for the help K. Always very appreciated.

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