It doesn't work out like normal retirement. Two attorneys told me that we'd have to pay to have someone figure out an estimate of the retirement. $1000 and up. It's all tied up in investments until he CHOOSES to retire. After he retires, then, I get a percentage based on the time we were married and the time he is in the job and so forth. It's really complicated.
I could be giving up $100 grand or more.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
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