I did go in with that attitude, and it was very "practical and business like." One of the questions my sister told me to ask (after discussing it with her BF who went thru an ugly divorce where wife was hiding $$) was if I should file? Weird question since I don't want a divorce. She said there are benefits to filing first, one of which is if he's feeling guilty he'll be more likely to give me what I ask. She said she knows it sounds "slimy" but she was being practical. Curious to see if anyone else that didn't want the divorce actually filed?? Very scary since it will def speed up the process.

On another note, I texted H about the DR. asked him if he could please let us know what was going on and he responded very quickly with the news. Not a heart issue which is what I was afraid of, but have no idea how serious the issue is...time to get on WebMD and do a little research.

J

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since