good observations. It sounds like you're changing (for you) and that's great. I had a small feeling/realization in my workout class today, that I am beginning to do this. In the beginning I think I was more "going thru the motions" of GAL because that was how to get things resolved. I realized this morning that my GAL activities actually feel good for ME even if I don't R with W (at the moment I'd give my chances of R a very low score). smile


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14