How is keeping her from doing what she sees is right for her going to help you? Do you think she'll become more angry or less angry? Will she take it as a positive from you?
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I want to maintain hope and faith that she will be willingly to try again at saving our M.
You can sign and still maintain hope and faith.
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She is a very prideful person and I think knowing that she will be worried about what others will think of her if she returns based on all the drastic moves she has made.
This is mindreading and although it may be true or partly true, it doesn't help you.
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And I ask myself all the time, was her life really that bad? Was she that miserable like she says? Has what has been done really too much to overcome? Is the idea of M too much of a burden/pressure for her?
Accept that all of these things are true for her but they are not all your responsibility. You can take responsibility for 100% of your 50%
This is tough stuff, the only way through it is through it.
Work on you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
