W said its over - Said I can't change her mind

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Now my W just text me the email she sent me yesterday. To be honest I'm surprised she has not blocked my number from calling or texting her. Which I have not done but 2 times in the last 16-17 days.

How do you vets suggest I respond to her text, which was "I.m not trying to hurt you I just want this over and done with where we can both move on. Please just go sign."

I feel my W is very confused and making a huge drastic decision with emotions still running high, I would assume she is still emotionally charged, just doesn't make sense to me. It is really hard to maintain hope and faith. It seems like to me she thinks this will all just go away if the D becomes final. I would like to think she is hurting too. I would like to think she is experiencing some of my pain too.

I want to maintain hope and faith that she will be willingly to try again at saving our M. She is a very prideful person and I think knowing that she will be worried about what others will think of her if she returns based on all the drastic moves she has made. And I ask myself all the time, was her life really that bad? Was she that miserable like she says? Has what has been done really too much to overcome? Is the idea of M too much of a burden/pressure for her?

I still maintain if she didn't have her best friend to run to this would not be happening. I moved back here for her and would do it a million times over for her. All of my friends that were here before I left have moved on to other cities thru out the country.

Any answers/suggestions would be helpful. Looking forward to reading everyone's thoughts.