Wow bug, thanks. It didn't tske it as harsh. My W only complsnined about it. I went into helper mode. My D complains about it to. I do try to stay out of it but not always good at that.

And you're correct. My W might not be mad. I am only guessing. Refocus on my life and me. Cant do anything else. Wow did I say that before. Lol

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14