own buz 22:mediation to reconcilliation, hopefully

[MrBond]

"If you are interested in time with her, reconcilliation is off the table. "

Whatever your "reason" was for saying this, it's still control. You are essentially not giving him a "choice". It's either all in or all out.

"Hope this makes sense."

I've understood from day one EVERY explanation you give about everything. The only problem is that you really have a hard time seeing things from another person's POV.

I said it before and I'll say it again. All of your posts have specific patterns to them. Your validation, the constant explanations for why you do what you do, etc. You treat DB like a ploy still. You don't need to keep TELLING people you've changed and here's how, blah blah blah. You just SHOW it.

And your communication hasn't improved yet either. You said that you were going to try and repeat what some people suggest to you so you understand their POV better. That lasted a couple of days then it was right back to you defending why you do what you do.

The pattern is all there. That's why I keep saying you haven't changed.