Thanks Barrybran, I know that they do want their business to flourish, but the one I saw is considered one of the top Ls in family law in my country. And she is really old so she knows the stuff. We'll see how this sitch will eventually turn out.
Still waiting on the book to come, and I really want to read it... Hopefully I'll get to understand more about her motivations and how to handle various things as they arise.
For now, I am in DETACH mode. I've told myself that the only way to find my sanity is to not care what she does or where she goes, but I am still a man and I get jealous dammit... I don't know how other people are handling the jealousy thing...
I also know that she has a couple of enablers where she works, particularly a younger lady I think. But I can't put anything in place, and I really don't want to look for anything at all. All I will get is more heartache, and I've got way too much of that to add to it.
And in all honesty I believe that the best thing for me to do now is to just distance myself from her. The C told me that she has a lot of issues that she needs to deal with, but no one can tell her to go see a IC now, not in this state. Hopefully she will start opening up soon, so that things can start moving forward. At least that's my wish.
I am really struggling with all the decisions that will need to be taken, but more so knowing that I may only be seeing my daughter a couple of afternoons a week and every other weekend. This is what I hate the most. This is the thought that gives me grief more than anything.
