I have been finishing up moving and am finally in my new place completely, then I get really sick! UGH! Anyway that is just why I haven't been around the boards much. I am sorry to find your W still in her fog. I didn't feel like 2x4ing you about that text because I think it is important to test the waters as long as you don't read too much into what happens as a result. Chances are you will feel worse after testing but if you can keep positive even after a minor backslide, then it is time to test a bit. It will make you stronger. I am guessing you have been doing things right since she mentioned that you seemed happy. To me, her saying she wanted to see you happy is a way of saying to herself that if you are happy, she will be relieved of the guilt she feels for breaking up your family. Again, it is all about her. Which is why it is important for you to focus on you. Keep doing what you are doing. Update on your progress in working on yourself. What have you been up to? What has been making you feel good? What does Groov LIKE about his new life and sitch? What are the positives about it? How is your outward personality lining up with your heart these days? Are you doing what you love? Are you saying how you feel? Are you expressing your true intentions in ways that make you and those around you feel good? Who do you have to answer to at the end of the day? Who holds you to your word? Take the time to think about how you would answer each of those questions. STAY positive, its the better alternative. Hope this finds YOU well Groov...:)
Me:35 BF:36 Together 4.5 years lived together 2 years moved out 8-13 still "together" but not together. Confused. D11, D13 (from 1st marriage)
