Wacky things the WAS/MLCer says- part2

[25yearsmlc]

OH,

this one bugged me at the time.

Herein, the W was confronted about A while she was actively engaged in it & she admitted it.

Then she told her h that she "wished she could just explore the A for, say, 6 months or so, 'you know, just to see what happens..."

BUT she knows she "could never ask her h to allow that..."

SO she just keeps on doing it (!), with her h still knowing(!!??!!), AND while saying she'd never ASK HIM to tolerate it...

Surreal, but maybe she believes it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission, which is a habit I find very very frustrating.

Then again she's really just letting her h know she knows HE would say no, and not 'Disobeying" him is somehow not as bad as just ignoring what she knows he feels/wants...

No insight from her hypocrisy or the irony, on either side.
No boundaries on either side, when you think about it